Threshold

Tomorrow I will be getting married. Just a little over two years ago, I ended my first marriage. At the time, I promised myself to stay away from intimate relationships until I was ready. The thought of getting remarried was far from my mind.

Boy, do things move fast. But that's what can happen when every thing is just right.

I look back at the past few years, of the dramatic and difficult changes I've had to make, and I look at the woman I am going to marry, and I realize how it was worth all the effort and tears to get where I am right now. It was a leap of faith to walk alone into an uncertain future. But without having taken that leap, I would never have met Conny.

There's a person in my life who gave me the courage to make the changes I needed to make in my life, the changes which got me to where I am now. Her inspiration, friendship and mentoring were key to getting where I am now. I am grateful to Midori, who can now officially call herself a "pervy yenta".

This is more than about being kinky, though. It's about passionately owning my own life, of which kink was an essential, catalytic part. I learned to take risks, chase dreams, and live my own life first. From this, I was able to truly love and be loved by my bride to be, and I have nothing but excitement about our future together.

And speaking of the future, the bachelor and bachelorette have to go out now and honor their last night of being single. Which makes me grateful for one other thing: an evening wedding.
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